The holiday season is time for giving thanks, celebrating with loved ones—and giving gifts. But when it comes to gifts, it’s not about how much we’re spending, or how big the gift is—it’s the thought that goes into a gift that makes it truly special.

Yes, when it comes to gifts, the most thoughtful ones are the best.

With weddings, the same rule applies … it’s the thought that counts most!

A well thought-out wedding (even on a small budget) can produce a far greater enjoyment factor than a hasty, last-minute wedding (even a big budget one!).

Give yourself, and your guests, the gift of your wedding day. Your wedding day can be a gift to yourself, your fiancé, and your family and friends. Let your guests experience being part of your marriage and celebration. They will remember and cherish it! By providing that inclusive, thoughtful experience, your wedding day will be even more special to you as a couple, knowing that you’ve created a meaningful experience for everyone involved.

Here are two tips:

1. Take time to create special moments. The more your wedding reflects you as a couple, the more you let guests in to your celebration. But this takes time. You need a timeline, a plan. When will you decide on each element? In which order? Instead of trying to do everything at once, good time management will give you the headspace to create perfect touches.
2. If you’re giving a favor, don’t let it be an afterthought. What you’re giving as a gift should be something that you love giving to your guests. Make that heartfelt as opposed to an afterthought. Those little things at the end can become obligatory, especially if you’re overwhelmed. With a proper timeline, you’ll have time to take care of the big and little details, with plenty of time, and you’ll have room to enjoy each moment.

As a wedding planner, I love brides to be able to enjoy the experience of their wedding by finding the perfect details. If you need my help, I’d love to talk.

Until next time…